Some of the most important minutes with your children are coming up

School is getting ready to start up, and for many, that means carpool lines. It means transporting your kids from one activity to the next and sitting in the car waiting. This can feel like wasted time.

I love being productive and getting things done. I’m honestly thankful I’m not there yet. But I think it’s because I’ve had the wrong perspective about it.

What about you? How do you view being the “taxi driver” for your kids? Do you look forward to waiting in that line for school in the morning?

I usually just drive past these lines on my way to work and get a little annoyed because they slow me down a little bit. I haven’t had to really wait in them yet.

Below is a post from Parent Cue that I think can really increase the way we disciple our children this school year. I’d highly encourage you to read it!

 

This post originally appeared here: http://theparentcue.org/the-most-important-minutes-we-often-miss/

The Most Important Minutes We Often Miss

Written by: Jon Acuff

“Our family has officially entered the wasteland of carpooling.

Not familiar with that? Allow me to explain.

There comes a time in your child’s life when they’re old enough to have lots of activities but young enough that they can’t drive yet. You, as the parent, find yourself trapped in a never ending cycle of drop off and pick up.

You can try your best to pool your efforts with other parents, but that only does so much. And let’s be honest, there’s always at least one parent who doesn’t pull their weight and never shares in the driving. That person is who Christ was referring to when he said that we were supposed to love our enemy.

The temptation is to think that carpooling is just one of the many challenges that come with parenting, but I know a secret.

Carpooling is one of the best ways to really know your kids.

Those 15 or 30 minutes offer you a window into who your kids really are.

Why? Because for a few minutes, you get to see them interact with their friends. You get to see where they fit in the social circle. You get to hear them laugh and giggle and share stories. It’s a perfect peek into a world you might have smaller access to as they get older.

I used to despise driving around all the time, but now I see it for what it really is. A chance to connect.

Is it always easy? Nope. It’s not. Sometimes, in the midst of a really busy week, it’s the last thing you want to do. I get that, I honestly do. But trust me, there will come a time when they’re driving and you won’t have those minutes together anymore.

It’s just a phase. Don’t miss it.”

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